Sunday, November 01, 2009

In search of Perfection

I know topic title looks strange, But since from few day I was just struggling with this word call perfection. Recently in TOI there is article about the 5 year old kids working out hard in Gym to get the perfect body. In TV Channels there is program called perfect Bride and definitely lots of young girls are working out to get the perfect figure.

Suddenly entire country is interested in achieving perfection! Why people are so much obsessed with this term?

Does these days’ perfection matters that much in our life?

What if we are not going to get the perfection?

Yes these sorts of questions and thought scares me!!

Because by parents are searching for perfect match for me. In my office some of colleague believes that I need everything to be perfect, If I am working out for Hrs in Gym friends think that I am trying to get the perfect body. Uff what if I fail to have everything perfect!!! Although personally I always say and believe that if God is not able to achieve perfection then who am I?

Just think if everything will be perfect then world will not be that beautiful, actually this imperfection makes things and creature beautiful! I know some of you are thinking I am again gone mad.

Just think women without curves, Earth without mountains and terrains (Perfect Flat). Do you still call it beautiful? Certainly I am not.

If you consider the ancient India we are least obsessed with perfection; most lovely and beautiful Hindu God (Ganesha) body is not sculptured with perfection, all the romantic stories from Kalidas poetry highlights imperfection as beauty. Then why suddenly country is so obsessed with perfection (Perfect Six Pack, Perfect Zero Figure, Perfect Match, and Perfect Partner). Frankly speaking we should stop using this word called perfect. Because perfect six pack has imperfection which makes it look good, Perfect zero figure has imperfection of curves which make women beautiful. And if there is perfect partner then life would be so dull (No Mirch Masala in life). I don’t think that anyone think that god is incapable to create perfection, Still he create a imperfection because these imperfection complement each other, Like Mountain Complement oceans, turf complement terrains & final result we leave in beautiful world.

So start achieving excellence leave perfection for god. Because achieving excellence is my business perfection is of God’s.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Believe, Trust & Faith !!!!

By nature and with our limited knowledge we consider these three words as synonyms. But some how that’s not true and we neglect the importance of these three word’s and its difference. I know you might be thinking that what stupid thing I am taking about. I also believed this till few weeks ago. But don’t know how and why the bug of finding relationship between these three words came on my mind. But any how let’s see wether my faith that their could N numbers of people in world who thinks like me is true or not.

Belief is the psychological state. Beliefs are the assumptions we make about ourselves, about others in the world and about how we expect things to be. Beliefs are also how we think things really are.

Trust is a relationship of reliance. A trusted party is presumed to seek to fulfill policies, ethical codes, law and their previous promises.

Faith is the confident belief in the truth of trustworthiness of a person, idea, or thing. It is also used for a belief, without proof.

Believers in a claim typically say that they know that claim. For instance, those who believe that the moon is a god will often report that they know that the moon is a god. I believe that I am good and I know that I am good. Some time philosophers say’s people know and what they believe so in that term its debatable theory.

Trust forms or build between people once individuals believe proved true or correct. Remember trust does not need to involve belief in the good character, vices, or morals of the other party. Persons engaged in a criminal activity usually trust each other to some extent. Also, trust does not need to include an action that you and the other party are mutually engaged in. Trust is a prediction of reliance on an action, based on what a party knows about the other party. Trust is a statement about what is otherwise unknown -- for example, because it is far away, cannot be verified, or is in the future.

I know you might be thinking by now what is faith? Faith is the confident belief in the truth of trustworthiness of a person, idea, or thing. Faith is again a mental state which does not need proof. And very important these three words are Cyclic in nature. Faith gives birth of Believes, Believes turn to Trust and then again faith comes in picture. If individual build several times trust on others believes the other person will have more faith on you and will be faithful to you.

Being a science student the mathematical formula I am able to derive is

Believe

Faith = ∫Trust i.e. Integrate Trust towards a believe


It’s getting interesting for me (Not aware about you?) even though after writing down this relation I am getting lots of idea and correlation in our day today life. I am getting ideas for what to do and what not to do. Ok lets move on; for those people who are still not in sync with my believe yet.

Trust is a mental state, which cannot be measured directly it’s binary either trust is their or not their. Confidence in the results of trusting may be measured through behavior, or alternatively, one can measure self-reported trust. You can consider trust as a moral choice or at least a heuristic, allowing the human to deal with complexities that outgo rationalistic reasoning. Trust is an action that involves a voluntary transfer of resources (physical, financial, intellectual, or temporal) from the truster to the trustee with no real commitment from the trustee (again prisoner's dilemma ).

Trust is getting build from the birth of the child. Trust grows stronger as the child grows older. But the root of trust comes from the relationship between the mother or caregiver of the child. If the family is very accepting and loving, the children will have a better grip on trusting others. If a child did not have a strong family to fall back on, they might have issues developing trust between friends and other family members. Trust is a very sacrey thing and is hard to regain trust once lost. Absence of trust does not allow us to believe/faith on yourself/others.

The child’s faith in his/her parents teaching is based on a belief in their credibility. Unless/until the child’s belief in their parents’ credibility is superseded by a stronger belief, the parental teaching will serve as a filter through which other teaching must be processed and/or evaluated. Following this line of reasoning, and assuming that children have finite or limited empirical knowledge at birth, it follows that faith is the fundamental basis of all knowledge one has. I think I am confusing you lets take some of the short examples.

1.) Religion: Hindu child believes that a stone idol is god, that believe come on his mind because of faith which he is having on religion; how a faith on religion came on his mind ? Because of trust which he is having towards this parents, because parents told them about that faith hence he started believing that.

2.) Political Leaders: More than 10 million people had a faith on Mathama Gandhi that if they follow him they will get the independence. Just think your self how that faith developed on peoples mind. Hitler lost a faith among his own country men because he broke their trust on believes.

3.) Kids trust their mothers first and handover their hands to them to learn walking because such a small kid has a belief that his/her mother will not allow him to fall and has a faith that if he do this he will be walking soon (in future).

But how come I trust computers/calculators? Actually that’s not a trust on computers/calculators but we actually trust computers manufacturers or software providers. I know again you are in debatable mood. But I am able to prove that fact.

Go to Start-->Run-->type Calc and Check the following... .

2704/50 = 54.08 Works Fine
2704/51 = 53.01960784 Works Fine
2704/52 = Try yourself Doesn't Work

So it’s shattered your trust and faith that computers always do a right calculation. But again you have reason its work fine with other calculators that’s a bug in Microsoft calculator.


By now you might be thinking how does this relate to corporate ? Above few thousand words are just to explain these three words are cyclic. Corporate also work in similar fashion; trust is essential in social institutions (governments), economies, Organizations and communities. They work on trust . In addition to the social influence, in organizational settings, trust may have a positive influence on the behaviors, perceptions, and performances of a person.

An individual was getting hired in any organization because his interviewer believe that his selection is not wrong. Once hired individual deliver or gives output as per the their believe he gains trust . Repetitive trust gain will build a faith; Faith that this guy/girl has potential and able to deliver more. Faith leads to promotions and increase in responsibilities in organization. I know it’s quite fascinating to look corporate in this way. t

I would advise take your own example you usually join new company (Without knowing any one over their) by just believing that organization would be good place to work, over a period of time you trust so many people in organization which build a faith that that’s a best place where you can work.


To summarize the entire article believes are based on assumption of past experience, Trust develops when action proves assumptions correct & Faith is assumptions for future.


Or to make it more simple people getting hired because of believes, stays in organization because of trust and fired because of absence of faith (That he is not able to do any work appropriately).

Sunday, April 19, 2009

We Crib, We Cry; But Why ?

We crib, We Cry,
But we hesitate to Try,
Have you ever thought Why ?

No gain being a Moral Duty Shy !

(Be a responsible citizen and vote for Nation, Telling a truth I am waked up after 12 year so you !)
Yes, I did !!!
Handling a public service in India is quite a tricky task. That's what I was aware and belived so far. But recently got a amazing experience @ BSNL.Like to share the incident and way I handled a issue. I am interested to make more and more people aware that public service departments are not sleeping any more. My phone was having some issues since from last two months. Called up 198 and registered several complaint but every time getting one or two calls saying cable issue and then phone was again dead. After having a frustrated experience of two months finally I decided to move on some other service provider but though that it's my right and duty towards making country better. I can move to some other service provider any day lets try the escalation and see if still BSNL is sleeping?
Good part is that I am having habit of writing all the things so all the calls made @ 198 was with me with date and time. I dropped a registered post to JTO with all the calls details.
After 10 day of no response again dropped a registered post to STO with above details and details of registered post to JTO. Also while searching on net got brilliant information about the online complaint booking facility and grievance raising facility. All BSNL user who are facing issues can raise a grievance and ask for information for their registered complain. That's a mandate from Gov. to appoint or designate a RTI Officer for all Gov. Offices and Services.
To my surprise just after 2 Hrs BSNL people started working on my issues and resolved the problem within Two Hrs.
I am enclosing both the Links for BSNL Users.
1.) Grievance Registration http://mis.bsnl.co.in/pgs/internet/pgwebregn.asp
2.) Online Fault Booking http://portal.bsnl.in/bsnlcca/login.aspx
Now I am going to try same thing with PF departments.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Me and We

Some people feel that if a person is taking with word "We" he is good team player. Recently my analysis and research proved something else. It’s happened when I was conducting IV’s for new candidates. It’s quite interesting experience and eye opener observation.

I am not saying it’s bad but I found that people who take individual responsibility usually talk me, myself, I and mine. These people are good leaders and take things too personally. And that’s a mantra for success. I know there are lots of people who are not going to convinced with my thought so explaining certain artifacts.

Imagine Mahatma Gandhi think that it’s our country and we have to make our country independed. Then in this "Our"; who will take initiative... Just read “My Experiment with truth” and observe he mentioned that it’s my country and I am interested to understand the country first. It’s (My and I) not we/our...
Yes we are one country but at last it’s my country and I have to do something for my country... If I think that we have to do something then initiative will never begin. (Quite interesting)

Ratan Tata mentioned it’s my promise and promise is promise is promise to give 1L car to world.

If everyone thinks that it’s our then where is ownership and responsibility?

Take one more example; It’s our city and we have to keep it clean... Everyone thinks it; but at last we just crib that government and municipal are not keeping city clean... And again we keep on poring cigarettes buds, plastics and garbage on road... because it’s our city and not mine. (Observe that in this sentence I used We and somehow I am convinced that it’s not me who is making city dirty, But quite possible that several time I did same thing which I am explaining above)

Similarly I saw there are 4 guys staying together in one flat and their room/ flat is quite dirty.
I asked them whose flat is this.
Answer: Is ours,
Who cleans’ house?
Answer: We
Then why flat was so dirty?
Answer: Because XYZ did this and ABC is lazy he doesn’t contribute is cleaning.

I called up one responsible guy from this group and asked him just for one month think other three guys are guest and it’s your house... You have to keep it clean!!! (Initially it was quite difficult for me to convince him because his tough was if I start cleaning my own I would be labor and other will just watch him and not going to contribute.
He started a drive and as soon as he started a cleaning activity other three joined him; week after week this fellow start cleaning house on weekend and other three start helping him. Some by shame, some really wanted to help him and some thinking other should not criticize him.
So that’s a power of me and I/myself...

Not sure this article is enough to convince you to give respect to people who think I, Me are myself. They are initiators, innovators and leaders who give direction, path and way to move people who thing we...

Since from decade it’s a myth that people who use us in their communication are good team player. And 80% of people think that way. Which is vice versa? People are good for driving a accelerated project but not good as leaders.

I don’t know from where this myth was adopted by us but trying to figure out the origin and motive making this myth, truth. As soon as I will get some clue will update my blog.

Friends I am thinking to create a voice blog because not getting enough time to write articles... But most of the time Ideas are boggling in my mind and I am interested to keep it on record. What would you think?
Please post comment if like my Idea which is kind of encouragement for me to do things which I am doing.

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Listen to these original songs of most popular Hindi Tracks

Dhoom song DHoom Macchale Inspired by Jesse Cook's 'Mario takes a walk'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=e3iTfEF52kw
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=CvhPvxmD3mI


Race Song Pehli Nazar Inspired by Chinese Kim Hyung Song Sarang Hae Yo
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=8KoS3weBxAg
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ffp5h_FGEJY

Race Song Zara Zara Touch Me Inspired by Lee-Hom Wang's 'Zhu Lin Shen Chu'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=wdTrPI3mumU
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=kLU76W2qbPs&feature=related

Jab we met's 'Yeh ishq kya' Inspired by Anggun's Être Une Femme
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=T4poevqspsI
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=TQyU6EqWh_o&feature=related

Jab We Met Aao milo chale Inspired Indonesian band, Peterpan's 'Di Belakangku'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=EGXniVSfSZE
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=7jpUic8hWD8&feature=related

Woh Lamhe 'Kya mujhe pyaar hai'Inspired by Indonesian Band 'Tak bisakah'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=EZTqg1MgkTY
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=2EoblYYvLsE&feature=related

Bhool Bulaiya Halla Hafiz Inspired by Amr Diab's Awedony
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=8Xi_xOmmsRY
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=UtVerSkccgo&feature=related

Dhol Dil Liya Inspired by Dania Khatib's 1999 hit, 'Leiley'
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/Leiley-DaniaElKhateeb.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xBkp57nRE5A

Life in a Metro song Baatein kuch ankahee Inspired by Korean song, 'Ah Reum Dah Oon Sa Ram' by Seo Yu Seok!
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=KCTGuhPcC4Y
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Ura4grIiF90&feature=related

Bhool Bhulaiyya Hare ram hare ram Inspired by Bill Hailey's Oriental Rock
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/OrientalRock-BillHaleyComets.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=4lu3EorpiQ4

Life in a Metro song O Meri jaan Inspired by Queensryche's Silent Lucidity and Amr Diab's Ba'ed el Layali
Original 1:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-2ohGF0K4AI
Original 2:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=P2y_Vbev5zs
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3g2ICCQNQ-w

Pyar ke side effects song Jaane kya Inspired by 'Mahi' by Hadiqa Kiyani
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=mokJJsRfP6Q
INSPIRED:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V5fEHdP-5Dc

Woh Lamhe song Chal Chale Inspired by a 1965 track called 'A World of our own' by the band, The Seekers
Original:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9oaXzrsV3Q
INSPIRED:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KeJ2tqPjnps

Dhoom Song DHOOM AGAIN Inspired by a song called 'Dudu' from Tarkan
Portions edited appropriately
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/Dudu_ver2-Tarkan.rm
INSPIRED:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/DhoomAgain-Dhoom2.rm


Speed song Tikki Tikki Inspired by Turkish pop superstar Tarkan's 2003 hit, 'Dudu'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=KoJ34jPX3WM
INSPIRED:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/TikhiTikhi-Speed.rm

Agnipankh song Janmabhoomi & Zindagi hai Inspired by Abrar-ul-haq's 'December
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/December-AbrarUlHaq.rm
INSPIRED 1:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/Janmabhoomi-Agnipankh.rm
INSPIRED 2:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/ZindagiHaiTo-Agnipankh.rm

Bhagam Bhag songs Signal & Afreen Inspired by Trinidadian Soca hit, 'Signal for Lara' by Superblue & Cheb Mami's 2001 track, 'Viens Habibi'
Original 1:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/SignalForLara-SuperBlue.rm
Original 2:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/ViensHabibi-ChebMami.rm
INSPIRED 1:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=G31riHQjvDI
INSPIRED 2:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=b-65fajmsC8

Life in a Metro In dino Inspired by Waqar Ali's 'Mera naam hai mohobbat'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=89wB3og_yXQ
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=aQ52IJjbNg4

Raqueeb songs 'Jaane kaise' Inspired by Amr Diab's 2003 track, 'Allem albi' and song 'Channa ve channa' Inspired by Pashto singer Rahim Shah.
Original 1:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=NqoXaLHFTik&feature=related
Original 2:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=JplIDBi6wZE
Inspired 1:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=rjwMsYnEJ58
Inspired2:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=33EJLt-NMDQ&feature=related

Kya Love Story Hai Song 'Miss you everyday' Lift of Lebanese singer Karina's 2006 chartbuster 'Alatoul'
'Jab se tum mile ho' is a lift from Pakistani singer Hadiqa Kiyani's 1996 number (album: Raaz), 'Jab se tum milay ho'!
Original 1:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=snIA9iR0b-0
Original 2:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/JabSeTumMilay-Hadiqa.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=FJ_w0HDh0N0

Kya Love Story Hain song 'Deewana teri aankhon ka' Inspired by Black Eyed Peas' 'Bebot'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=gQAGh3JViyI
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Nr0ASdmHF40

Kya Love Story Hai song Gum sum hai dil mera Inspired by Thai song, 'Oh la nor...my love' by Bird Thungchai.
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=tJjrJIh8c8k
INSPIRED:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/GumSumHaiDil-KLSH.rm

Ankahee song Aa paas aa Inspired by Ottmar Liebert's 'Starry nite (March of Kings)
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/StarryNite-OttmarLiebert.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=KbsUBqQxygY

Apna sapna money money song Dil mein baji guitar Inspired by song, 'Sheloha shela' by the Middle Eastern group, Miami Band
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/ShelohaShela-MiamiBand.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=pCPA80elJlY

Woh Lamhe song 'Tu Jo nahi' Inspired by 'Tu Jo Nahi SB John
Original:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=HWoKJMnMRSQ&feature=related
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=br_RJ0-rlbY

Bas ek Pal song 'Hai ishq' Inspired by Yuri Mrakadi's 'Arabiyon Ana'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=c8gt6agxYN0
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qoHtiN4rWJo

Pyaar Ke Side Effects song 'Is this love' Inspired by Paul Anka's 1969 track 'A-mi-manera'
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/A-mi-manera_MyWay.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=CGzMwPzc1VY

Ankahee Title song Inspired by Boney M's 1984 track, 'Somewhere in the world'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=68hPjUoAk4E
INSPIRED:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/Ankahee-TitleSong.rm

Gangster
Song 'Ya ali' Inspired by Arabic band Guitara's 'Ya ghaly'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZJi50826cu4
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=dpl9o_0Dtb4&feature=related


SOng 'Lamha lamha' lifted form Waris Baig's 1998 track, 'Kal shab dekha maine'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=0wfe0u-7DpI
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=dJscz7bJ080

Song 'Bheegi bheegi' lift from Mohiner Ghoraguli's Bangla jibhonmuki gaan
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xAkzopTMXHc
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=_wwsyz2YBUg&feature=related

Song Tu hi meri shab hai Inspired by 'Sacral Nirvana' by Oliver Shanti & Friends
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=5JXrmUD0EK0
Inspired:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=BklekKJPjlI&feature=related


Ek Hasina Thi
Song Akhiyaan Na Maar Inspired by Pakistani singer Waris Baig's 2004 track, 'Challa'
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/Challa-WarisBaig.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=BuFQ0aZLP8E

Song Jal Jal Ke Inspired by Yuri Mrakadi's 2001 track, 'Arabiyon Ana'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=gmmToe4TJw8
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=F_MYsiA3YY0

Fight Club Song Chorein ki Batein Inspired by Pakistani singer Ali Zafar's 'Channo ki aankhen'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=lLhylAWQgo8
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=NrVm2NEoatY

Ek Khiladi Ek Hasina song 'Jhoom' Lifted from Britney Spears' commercial for Pepsi, 'Joy of Pepsi'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=HSZaif6xlWc
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=wKpYRUI3o4M

Garam Masala
Songs 'Dil samundar' Inspired by Turkish singer Tarkan's 'Kuzu kuzu'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=u4kncVrjaQk
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=4SHSxTBT4D0

Song 'Chori Chori' Inspired by Balwinder Safri's 'Hai rabba'
Original 1:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/ChoriChori2-GaramMasala.rm
Original 2:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/HaiRabba-DrZeus.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xT5-NxdawRI

Song'Ada' Inspired by song Amr Diab's Ana
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/AmrDiab-Ana.rm
INSPIRED:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/HaiRabba-DrZeus.rm

Dhoom song Shikdum Inspired by Tarkan's 'Sikidim'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=g2uy7Cfl6kU
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=i2xThHWuM9A

Chocolate
Song 'Zahreeli raatein' Inspired by Jal's 'Aadat'
Original:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=FdZDRZTf67Y
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XyZEth7A0aw

Song 'Bheega bheega sa' Inspired by Abrar-ul-Haq's 'December'
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/December-AbrarUlHaq.rm
INSPIRED:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=LCZhMHUFabI&feature=related

Song 'Halka halka sa' Inspired by 'Breeze from Saintes Maries'
Original:
http://www.itwofs.com/audio/BreezeFromSaintesMaries-JesseCoo k.rm
INSPIRED:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xcaog3CT6Fs

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Kiddie Foods

Today some how trying to recall the memories of childhood food habits and found that its almost more than 15 years when I had such stuff in my food. So recalling all the dishes for end less future.
Let me know if i missed some thing.

  1. IDLI Sugar
  2. Chai Paratha
  3. Chai IDLI
  4. Chai Roti
  5. Bhujia Pyaj Roti
  6. Chai Lie
  7. Jaggery Ghee Roti (Gud, Ghee, Roti)

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Interesting Facts ( to laugh only ) But true.

Year 1981.
  • Prince Charles got married2.
  • Liverpool crowned Champions of Europe3.
  • Australia lost the Ashes4.
  • Pope Died

Year 2005.

  • Prince Charles got married2.
  • Liverpool crowned Champions of Europe3.
  • Australia lost the Ashes .
  • Pope Died

In future, if Prince Charles decides to re-marry . please warn the Pope!!

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Decisive Dilemma

Some time very silly things itch you a lot. Its not an that much big problem but still you will feel it . That happened to me today . I am in great turmoil and not able to decide what I have to do. One side I have an colleague/friend and other side I have my ethics ideology and my word to fairly known person. Whom should I support . Concern or issue is very materlistic and not having that much sense . But friend said some words which really stressed me too much to think . One side I have a friend who feel and also tell me what all he didn't like in me its very rare to get such friend (specially for me ) approx 80% of society pampers you directly or indirectly. I am just scared that if I will take my decision as per myself he feel hurt or indirectly I am going to spoil my relationship with him. I am in state of perplexity as I have choice between equally unfavorable options.

Although I know my friend is very dice and too much confused and because of that he never owe by his words which I definitely didn't liked. But should I also do same thing for him with others ? Could I do things which I didn't liked ? Then whats the difference between him and me ? I was just thinking all these scrap since from last 4 hrs. But after putting above 6 lines on paper I am more clear and out from my dilemma .

Its really help a person if u write it down in neat an clean paper. Because thoughts are frequently come in your mind and override earlier thought. But if its on paper your analytical brain is able to tell you what's wrong and what's right. So I decided to owe by my words, without fearing abt friend and a relationship with him. Because if he is friend of mine then he is able to understand me and if its not like that then he is not friend of mine he is just an opportunist so why should I bother abt him. And definitely it give lesson to him too; and he could be more aware in future abt such things.

Bye the way why I published it because I fell its very small and common thing (every one face such situation once every month) but certainly its create more stress for a person in his day to day life. Such thing worked for me . But it took lot of time to remove instance and person name from article. Hopefully you are also going to try such solution. Don't forgot to post comment of yours abt my decision. I am looking forward for your help too. I already decided but yes your feedback will be helpful for me in future.

Thursday, October 13, 2005

A Very Rare Map representation of India till 1882.

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Religions and God

Although this is true that religion is the integral part of our life or we can say it as human existence. But while chatting with one of my friend I got to know some thing called Taoism and then to capitalized my time over here in the project I started reading books and article related to religion apart from technical books and article (Its my Hobby). Some of the research work which I am able to explore describes different religions in term of God or Baghwan or Iswar or Allaha etc what ever u call it i will call it Almighty (Not of movie :) ) except for some of them, after all exception are every where.
Human psychology insist every human being to accept the existence of the creator, unless he has been conditioned to believe the contrary . I am ready to bet on that 97% of the human in the world believe in the existence of creator be it scientist, astronaut , doctor , computer professional or be a psycho too. Hence I can conclude that believing in god requires no reason or proofs while rejection of god does. I am also trying to do the depth study of religions one by one but here again if almighty will allow me and support to do it. :)

Some of the research papers broadly categorized the religions of this planet into two categories .
Semitic
Non-Semitic
Here Semitic word is derived from the name of one of the character of holy Bible Shem considered to be son of Prophet Noah. Descendents of Shem are known as Semites. Hence the Semitic religion are the religions that originated among Jews, Arabs, Assyrians, Phoenicians, etc. Major religion in this category are Judaism, Christianity, Islam,
Also known as prophetic religion that believe in divine guidance given by prophet of God.

Non -Semitic religions are further sub divided in to two more category
  1. Aryans
  2. Non-Aryans
Aryan Religions
Named on the community or race consist of powerful group of Indo-European speaking people that spread through Iran and Northern India in the first half of the second Millennium BC (2000 to 1500 BC). Almost all of the major Aryan religions are non-prophetic religions.
It is further divided into two major categories
  1. Vedic
  2. Non-Vedic
Vedic religion is given the misnomer of Hinduism or Brahmanism. While most popular non Vedic religions are Sikhism, Buddhism, Jainism, Zoroastrianism(Parsiism) etc

Non-Aryan
Religions have diverse origins. Like Confucianism and Taoism are of Chinese origin while Shintoism is of Japanese origin and do not have a concept of God. Some critics refer them as ethical system rather than as religions.

Confucianism moral and religious system of China is also considered to be agnostic religion and do not comment on God.

Taoism refers both to a Chinese system of thought and to one of the four major religions of China and do not have a concept of God. Tao means the way or path. Taoism has had a significant influence world-wide: in many Western societies it can be seen in acupuncture, herbalist, holistic medicine, meditation, martial arts, Feng Shui and Tai Chi .

Aryan Vedic :
Hinduism
is an assortment of religious beliefs, most of whom are based on Vedas and Upanishads. It is commonly perceived as a polytheistic religion. Some believe in the system of three Super Powers some believe in the existence of 33crore i.e. 330 million Gods. However learned Hindus who are well versed with their scriptures insist that a Hindu should believe in only one God. But then what is 330million ?

Its very simple as per the Hindu believes every thing is god (God is present in) be it tree, sun, moon, animals or even U and me . And as per believe their is 330 million creatures are in planet hence if every thing is god then 330 million gods are their.
Second believe of 3 super powers are considered to be the attributes of god; Creator, Sustainer and Destroyer (Brahma, Vishnu & Mahesh), originated from the null (sunya or Zero or Null ) called "OM" (its nothing but only a sound ) means god attributes originated from sound. ( In scientific term I can explain it with an example of nucleus of an atom. So their is different attributes of atom its an creator , its an sustainer its and destroyer too but its self existence is nill ie Zero its an totally different matter of fact, what it creates, what it sustain and what it destroy.) That's why in yoga this sound has a very special significance. I don't know how you will take it. But its an believe of millions of Hindus and mine too. Their is thousand of other believes too but most of them at last conclude in these two believes only. Hinduism believe in the doctrine of incarnation (Avtars).

Aryan Non Vedic:
Sikhism:
Its an non Vedic religion but considered to be the offshoot or branch of Hinduism founded by Guru Nanak at the end of the 15th Century originated in the area of Pakistan and northwest India called Punjab meaning the land of 5 rivers. GuruNanak was born in warrior cast of Hindu family but was very strongly influenced by Islam. Sikh word is derived from the word Sisya meaning follower. Its an religion of 10 Gurus (Teachers). The sacred book of Sikhism is Sri Guru Granth also called Adi Granth Sahib. In this religious believe their is one supreme god who is in the unmanifest form called "OM" and having several attributes. While Sikhism does not believe in incarnation means god does not incarnate himself in what is known as avatar. Also idol worship is strongly against this religion.

Buddhism is considered to be agnostic religion and do not comment on God . In the religion its neither confirm nor deny the existence of God. But I know most of the Buddhism followers believe in existence of almighty. This religion and philosophy founded in India c.525 B.C. by Siddhartha Gautama, called the Buddha. There are over 300 million Buddhists worldwide. One of the great world religions, it is divided into two main schools: the Theravada or Hinayana in Sri Lanka and SE Asia, and the Mahayana in China, Mongolia, Korea, and Japan. A third school, the Vajrayana, has a long tradition in Tibet and Japan. Buddhism has largely disappeared from its country of origin, India.

Jainism is considered to atheistic religion which do not believe in the existence of God. Being an ascetic religion of India, that teaches the immortality and transmigration of the soul and denies the existence of a perfect or supreme being. Arose in the 6th cent. B.C. as protests against the overdeveloped ritualism of Hinduism , particularly its sacrificial cults, and the authority of the Veda. Jain tradition teaches that a succession of 24 tirthankaras (saints) originated the religion. The last, Vardhamana, called Mahavira [the great hero] and Jina [the victor], seems to be historical. He preached a rigid asceticism and solicitude for all life as a means of escaping the cycle of rebirth, or the transmigration of soul. Thus released from the rule of karma, the total consequences of past acts, the soul attains nirvana , and hence salvation. Mahavira organized a brotherhood of monks, who took vows of celibacy, nudity, self-mortification, and fasting. Since the 1st cent. A.D., when a schism developed over the issue of nudity, there have been two great divisions of Jains, the Digambaras [space-clothed, i.e., naked] and the Svetambaras [white-clothed]. Jainists, then as now, accumulate merit through charity, through good works, and in occasional monastic retreat.

Zoroastrianism (Parsiism) is an ancient Aryan religion originated in Persia more that 2500 years ago. Though it has relatively few adherents, less that one hundred and thirty thousand in the whole world, The Iranian prophet Zoroaster was the founder of Zoroastrianism. The scared scripture of parsis is the Dasatir and Avesta.

Semitic
Judaism is one of the major Semitic religions. Its followers are known as Jews and they believe in the prophetic mission of Prophet Moses. That's what I am able to explore so far.

Christianity and Islam: They are almost same only way of seeing things different . Both religion believe in the one supreme power . Both of the religions believes in the existence of Jesus. Difference is that in Islam its believed that Jesus was one of the mightiest messenger of god while Christian believes in divinity of Jesus. In Islam it is a believe that Holy Quran has word of God revealed to Prophet Mohammed. Also Idiol worship is strictly prohibated. As per islamic belives every thing is of god's be it tree, animals, human, sun, and moon.

Saturday, October 01, 2005

IT export of India


One of my college always state that the India software export is only 2% of its all export and crib that Indian government is not doing any thing for its other export (agriculture according to him) which are the core of export. His cribbing and criticism enforced me to collect some vital statistics and know the truth. Why in country so much hype for software export sorry its better to say IT export . This small research help me to collect some of the information which are mind blowing . Like to share some of these information with u people so that some misconceptions and elegation will be removed. I agree the statistics are not every thing but still it is some thing. Proof is below.

Starting from Union budget 2003-2004 section 1.44 India continues to make progress on export-oriented production in electronics and computer technology. Software exports have grown at a compound growth rate of over 50 percent per year for the last five years. (unfortunatly our gov is not able to understand that its not software export but its and combined IT export hopefully they are able to correct it in next budget) So if government is concentrating more in this sector whats the harm . It doesnt mean that putting so much efforts in this sector makes them sleep for other sector.

As per the report published on 4th July 2005 India's merchandise exports have almost doubled in the last three years to $80 billion, and exports of software/IT-enabled services have almost tripled to $17.2 billion. which shows that the software/IT-enabled export is not 2% while its approx 21%. Might be he has some wrong data or some calculation mistake. It might be 2% once upon a time. Some other statistics which I am able to consolidate are as.

As per one of the prediction report published by McKinsey
India started exporting software in 1983 is expected to touch an envious $ 50 billion figure in 2008. India whose export earnings from all sources totalled $ 36 billion till recently will be able to boost its total exports to $ 260 billion in 2008, 35 per cent of it from the IT related exports.

Other key findings of this report are:

  1. Software & Services will contribute over 7.5 % of the overall GDP growth of India
  2. Total annual turnover of IT Industry is $ 87 Billion (Internal + export)
  3. IT Exports will account for 35% of the total exports from India
  4. Potential for 2.2 million jobs in IT by 2008
  5. IT industry will attract Foreign Direct Investment (FDI) of U.S. $ 4-5 billion
  6. Market capitalization of IT shares will be around U.S. $ 225 billion

India started IT related exports as early as 1984, the Indian IT industry remained in red till 1993. The first and only one multinational company, Texas Instruments, came to India in 1986. The year 1993 could be called a turning point for the Indian IT industry when the software exports crossed the $ 330 million figure, over six-fold that of $ 52 million in 1987. It was also the year when the US MNCs flocked to India in gangs to reap the profit.

A very interesting statistics is present in BREAK-UP OF PROJECTED $ 87 BILLION IT INDUSTRY

  • IT Services -$ 39 Billion- 45%
  • Software Products -$20 Billion- 23%
  • IT Enabled Services (BPO) -$ 19 Billion- 21%
  • e-Business -$ 10 Billion -11%

So what would you think so called software developers and software consultants. 80% of us who is working in software usually see IT Enabled Services (BPO) with some other angle which is competeting while IT Services (Support centers or maintenance project ) will be the leading the export economy.

This is the fact that fastest-growing export sector is the outsourcing of business services called BPO (business process outsourcing) or ITES (information technology enabled services). These span a huge range of services from simple call-centres to engineering and R&D services. They are growing so rapidly that one day they will surely overhaul software exports. In 2004-05, computer software exports rose 30.4 %, but service outsourcing exports rose even faster by 44.4 %.

Indian software giants like TCS, Infosys and Wipro are India's biggest exporters. Yet, foreign companies now account for 30 per cent to 35 per cent of software exports. Every big name in the world has opened an Indian unit, from Microsoft to Oracle to SAP. Here again, what look like Indian exports are also the internal trade of MNCs.

What is not so well known is that two-thirds of our outsourcing exports come from captive Indian units of multinational corporations. The entire industry was kick-started by General Electric, and others followed. So, India's most dynamic export sector is not Indian at all but foreign-owned. In official economic terms, such service exports are Indian exports. But in pure business terms, they are the internal trade of MNCs.

This shows that globalisation is not a zero sum game, in which the gains of one side are the losses of the other side. Both sides gain. There are some short-term losers in the US whose jobs travel to India. But US living standards rise only because workers are constantly forced out of lower-productivity jobs into higher-productivity ones. Every year, the US destroys 32 million jobs and creates 32.5 million jobs. The net result is a richer, more productive USA.

Friday, September 16, 2005

Indians are terrible at prevention, but terrific in crisis management

Although below mentioned words are not of mine its of Anita (columnist for Outlook) . But I am highly impressed what she captured, Its reallay a marvelous. I am reading some articles abt the political, social and economics of India and this article came across. Enclosed same for u because I know if I add URL u might hesitate to read.

Starting From Politics :
In fact, nationalism is one of the biggest growth industries in India, one that is guaranteed to stymie, if not wreck, genuine economic progress. In the last decade, the rise of Hindu nationalism has become a growing nightmare for India's Muslims and Christians. At the heart of this ideology is the belief that today's Muslims should be punished for historical wrongs perpetrated by medieval Muslim invaders and conquerors. The worst Hindu-Muslim rioting and looting happened in the western state of Gujarat in 2002, when Hindu mobs killed and maimed thousands of innocent Muslim civilians, including pregnant women and children, avenging another ghastly incident in which Muslim criminals roasted alive 58 Hindu pilgrims in a train. If unchecked, nationalism will also take its toll on the dangerous Kashmir dispute that bedevils relations between the nuclear-capable neighbors India and Pakistan. The two countries have fought two of their three wars over Kashmir, engaged in another low-level conflict in 1998, and come to the brink of another in 2002, prevented mainly through diplomatic intervention by the U.S. The situation is exacerbated by politicians who polarize Hindus and Muslims before elections in order to garner Hindu or Muslim votes -- with Hindus constituting 82% of the population, Hindu nationalism clearly has a better chance of winning the electoral stakes. The battle for votes may be won through this diabolical strategy of dividing communities, but the opportunity for India to achieve her true destiny as a stable, prosperous giant in the 21st century will be lost.

Bill Clinton once said: "India remains a battleground for every single conflict the world has to win." Certainly India copes with massive problems -- mounting corruption, joblessness, judicial bottlenecks with few convictions and delays of up to 20 years for delivering justice, AIDS, acute water shortages, poverty, disease, environmental degradation, unbearable overcrowding in metropolitan cities, crises of governance, sectarian violence, and terrorism. India adds one Australia to itself every year -- 18 million people. The rural poor (who form the majority) see children as an economic resource, the only security net for old age, and high child-mortality rates necessitate the need for more than one or two. Apart from India's huge natural growth rate, an estimated one to two million poor Bangladeshis slip into India every year in search of work.

Besides all the problem it is really a miracle that India has not collapsed, but this is a country of remarkable stamina. The trouble is, India does not act until a crisis is full-blown. Indians are terrible at prevention, but terrific in crisis management. (Comparable example is of Bombay flood and Switizerland flood and katrina in US) As it looms closer -- like the imminent judicial collapse -- it is exasperating and frightening to see citizens and authorities insouciantly lurch towards the abyss. But once they reach the precipice, Indians are adept at pulling back quickly and effectively. They don't descend into chaos because they are adaptable and resilient. For if disparity is India's weakness, diversity and courage are her strengths. India has a strong network of grass-roots-level institutions, NGOs, and activists that form a kind of coral reef, erecting little barriers on which political and economic onslaughts falter, such as the recent attempts to build an industrial belt around the Taj Mahal that, once exposed in the media, were shelved. These onslaughts come from an array of "threats" -- from local politicians to multinational corporations. Nobody can ride roughshod over India. Nobody can fool Indians. Foreigners may be smooth-talking, willing to bribe, have fancy degrees, and speak English with a beautiful accent. But they can neither arm-twist nor hoodwink Indians. The shenanigans of Enron were exposed first in India. India stood firm amid the Enron-orchestrated swirl of accusations of being difficult, corrupt, untrustworthy. All of which is true. But it was equally true of Enron. Eventually, it was Enron that went bust.

When they cannot do it their way and according to their schedule, politicians rail against the bureaucrats, trade unionists, judges, journalists, and NGOs. But this defensive "coral reef" is what has saved India from sliding precipitously to economic ruin. The pace of Indian economic reforms was widely attacked as too slow by the IMF and World Bank. And yet Joseph Stiglitz, winner of the Nobel Prize for Economics in 2001 and a former chief economist for the World Bank, now admits that India's caution and slow, deliberate steps are precisely what saved the nation from the catastrophic meltdowns and flights of capital that befell Asian and Latin American countries.

India has always been a giant and will continue to be a giant. But she will move at her own pace. She is not an Asian tiger. She is more like a stately Indian elephant. No one can whip or crack her into a run. If you try, the stubborn elephant will dig in her heels and refuse to budge. No power on earth can then force her to move. The desire for change and movement must come from within. India will move, but she will be slow, ponderous, circuitous. Progress will come, but it will come in measured steps, not in leaps and bounds. There is no point arguing whether this is good or bad. It is good and bad. And it is many things in between.

After all, this is India. And we are Indians. :)

Sunday, September 11, 2005

Does India need dictator ?


Does India need dictator ?

Its a very long time after which I enclosing my writeup . But yes like to get ur comments to present my views in much more creative way.

Last thrusday I met an Srilankan guy on road. I am actually going as usual but suddenly I hear some words of my familiar language . Its not very clear to me because I had an ear buds of my portable music box on my ears. I stoped and removed my ear buds: just shocked that that guy is taking to me only and important to mind that he is taking to me in Hindi. Then we chat for a while and in that small introduction he said to me can u speak in Hindi because he is taking to me in Hindi and I am replying to him in English . Its not like that I didn't speak or like to talk in Hindi but its long time and now I have shortage of word in my vocabulary that's why I am not able to speak conveniently in Hindi. He started parsing India for so many things.

Thats amazing experience and analysis which I did on my self and realized that the environment help u alot for command over any language . When I am in India I had same feeling when I tried to speak to any one in English but here I had same feeling in my own language. Might be I got diverted to the point . This chap has his mouth totally red like most of the people in India due to Gutka or PAAN . He described that he finished some part of his formal education in india and here also he is studying and part time worked in restorant .Thing to notice for me is that this fellow is almost of 35 years and still a student .

Friday again I had an lunch with one of my colleague at McDonald. Their again we had discussion abt our country . He is elder to me but his views about country is completely negative and he said that our leaders fought for independences unnecessarily. According to his views bruisers has done great job and we are developed nation if we are ruled by them . Unnecessarily our leaders( named one ) demanded for independence and they got it too without vision. Even though he is not ready to accept that India is country prior to Independence. Its very bad that what ever he studied and where ever he studied does not tell him that India is country since from Mahabarata age although that is known as BHARAT VARSH (Named on the name of ruler Bharath) After that great Ashoka tried to make it united and this phenomenon is followed by some to mugal emperors too.

According to him we had poverty and illiteracy today because of independence . I am not aware weather he is right or I am right . I only learned and heard that the ancient Indian greatness . Neither I have seen the Britsh rule. Although I agree that the railways and some big bridges are created by Britsh but for such small thing how much heavy amount we paid . If India is so much backward then why till 1800 century world is fascinated abt India. Take example of Alexender, Mohammad Tuglaq or any other invaders. I am not aware abt the facts but I received one presentation which state that .

India was the richest country on Earth until the time of the British in the early 17th Century

Robert Clove’s personal wealth amassed from the blunder of Bengal during 1750’s was estimated at around £401,102.
It has been estimated that the total amount of treasure that the British looted from India had already reached £1,000,000,000 (£billion) by 1901. Taking into consideration interest rates and inflation this would be worth close to $1,000,000,000,000 ($trillion) in real-terms today.

On the top of all these britishers killed our knowledge society. Why I am saying this because its proved that scientifically we are much more advance till 1700 BC some of the examples are
  • India invented the Number System. Zero was invented by Aryabhatta. The place value system, the decimal system was developed in India in 100 BC.
  • Aryabhatta was the first to explain spherical shape, size ,diameter, rotation and correct speed of Earth in 499 AD.
  • The World's first university was established in Takshila in 700 BC. Students from all over the World studied more than 60 subjects.
  • The University of Nalanda built in the 4th century was one of the greatest achievements of ancient India in the field of education.
  • Sanskrit is considered the mother of all higher languages. Sanskrit is the most precise, and therefore suitable language for computer software - a report in Forbes magazine, July 1987.
  • Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to humans. Charaka, the father of medicine consolidated Ayurveda 2500 years ago.
  • Today Ayurveda is fast regaining its rightful place in civilization.
  • Christopher Columbus was attracted India's wealth and was looking for route to India when he discovered the American continent by mistake.
  • The art of Navigation was born in the river Sindh 6000 years ago. The word ‘Navigation’ is derived from the Sanskrit word NAVGATIH. The word navy is also derived from Sanskrit 'Nou'.
  • In Siddhanta Siromani (Bhuvanakosam 6) Bhaskaracharya II described about gravity of earth about 400 years before Sir Isaac Newton. He also had some clear notions on differential calculus, and the Theory of Continued Fraction.

Can u not think that for such a small things we paid a very heavy amount to British. Ultimately our discussion closed on the point that currently Indian does not deserve the democracy and country should be ruled by some dictators to stablise our country. I am also agreed on that part and if am dictator I will try to find people having such views and through away from the our country. Our country need a cleaning now. Every thing has to be cleaned its politics , corruption , thoughts or such personalities who are what they are because of country itself and not ready to accept it.

And I am not able to understand why such people are not ready to accept what we achived so far, but only crib abt what we are not able to do till date. And if some foregin national like our country then why not our country mens. Does some day will come when I can see that our own country men feel proud to be Indian like me (but yes facts and stats are essential).

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

Different View Points.

Here is lots of words to say. I am in a very sad mood. Since from yesterday I am not able to decide weather its my right decision to join this organization or not. Slowly its making me sence that I am in wrong position and also on wrong place. People call this place a heaven on earth but slowly its becoming a hell for me.

But suddenly I received an very good mail from one of mine best friend. I am enclosing those words here too. Seems that I am not able to coup up with the changing environment or other thing is that the changed environment is not good. It might be right from both the perspective. Its much more like the discussion of half filled glass betweens two drinker. Both of them are right at their place. One is saying that its half empty because he does not want to share any more. Another is saying that its half filled because he wants to take sip from that glass. Now its difficult to say who is right. Both are correct at their point of view.

In more depth Imagine you're in London's Heathrow Airport. While you're waiting for your flight, you notice a kiosk selling shortbread cookies. You buy a box, put them in your traveling bag and then you patiently search for an available seat so you can sit down and enjoy your cookies.Finally you find a seat next to a gentleman. You reach down into your traveling bag and pull out your box of shortbread cookies.

As you do so, you notice that the gentleman starts watching you intensely. He stares as you open the box and his eyes follow your hand as you pick up the cookie and bring it to your mouth. Just then he reaches over and takes one of your cookies from the box, and eats it! You're more than a little surprised at this. Actually, you're at a loss for words. Not only does he take one cookie, but he alternates with you. For every one cookie you take, he takes one.

Now, what's your immediate impression of this guy? Crazy? Greedy? He's got some nerve?! Can you imagine the words you might use to describe this man to your associates back at the office? Meanwhile, you both continue eating the cookies until there's just one left. To your surprise, the man reaches over and takes it. But then he does something unexpected. He breaks it in half, and gives half to you. After he's finished with his half he gets up, and without a word, he leaves. You think to yourself, "Did this really happen?" You're left sitting there dumbfounded and still hungry. So you go back to the kiosk and buy another box of cookies. You then return to your seat and begin opening your new box of cookies when you glance down into your traveling bag. Sitting there in your bag is your original box of ookies -- still unopened.

Only then do you realize that when you reached down earlier, you had reached into the other man's bag, and grabbed his box of cookies by mistake. Now what do you think of the man? Generous? Tolerant? You've just experienced a profound paradigm shift. You're seeing things from a new point of view. Is it time to change your point of view?

Now, think of this story as it relates to your life . Seeing things from a new point of view can be very enlightening. Think outside the box. Don't settle for the status quo. Be open to suggestions. Things may not be what they seem.

Thursday, June 09, 2005

Zuerich-2005

This article I am publishing very late. Although I tried to publish earlier. But because of some problem I am not able to do so. This is related to my travel to Switzerland. Zurich an important journey of my life might be a milestone. I will keep on incrementing some of my thoughts in this article.

I started my Journey on 12 th of April 2005 for Zurich my flight is scheduled for Munich at early morning I am not able to recall the exact time for the same. So we all decided (me my brother and one of my friend Rajesh Jain) that we will spend some time at theater and we all watch Movie at center stage (Its in Noida Atta Market) because its very difficult for me to get waked up so early so its better that we will not sleep to catch my flight. Hence we all watched movie so called LUCKY- No time for Love. Movie is very beautifully picturised all the locations where its pictures is also quite attractive. But unfortunately we r able to manage last three tickets of that movie. (Ah how lucky I am). And it’s on first row J. This is the first time I am experiencing the Cinema from front Row. Jain and me laughed that what a movie because at the startup (Text on screen) when we tried to cover right hand left hand is skipped and when we tried to cover right hand left hand is skipped. The complete movie costs us approx 250 bugs per person. Hence I am thinking at that moment what a stupidity is that because after spending almost 1000 bugs still we have watch movie like tennis play (By keep on rotating my head left and right.). What a co incidence that at my earlier visit to US again we three watched movie at that time its Rajesh Jain his wife and of course me it’s quite a heavy rainy day and we went to watch movie because we already purchased an tickets for that so decided that we will go to movie by Riksha (Man driven Three tire cycle having sitting capacity of two person excluding rikshaw driver).

After movie we went back to my home and a light chat between us. Then we all reached at airport. That’s the first time when I have seen water in my younger brother eyes due to emotions. I don’t know what’s in his mind at that time but it’s really an ever-memorable time for me.

Most of the things I forgot till date but still trying to recollect all the beautiful observations that I am able to made. There is one instance in COOP (an retail chain in Switzerland) after collecting all of the e items, which I needed for a week I was in a queue. Suddenly I observer some lady having trouble in both legs is also standing in a queue. Queue is of almost 3 to 4 people, I thought that I should give her a preference because might be she is in pain (I am able to feel that pain because just three months before I also had an accident). I am not able to understand their language neither able to explain any thing to them .So I requested her that she can go first (all facial and body expressions), But suddenly what I observed that she says “NO NO OK”, and after a short interval “MERCY” that’s what I am able to understand. So that’s the sprit in her. Initially I thought that she is telling me “don’t get mercy on me” because her voice is very loud.

I feel that I am doing some thing wrong. But later on get to know that mercy means thanks in French. In that small conversation I understood with her facial expression that “I am ok in how and where I am” Its Ur kindness but I didn’t need Ur help? Don’t feel pretty abt me. That’s a really courageous effort. Then after that instance I thought why our people r always looking for help, why we cant do our things our self’s.

There is another instance that I had today i.e. on 9th June 2005 and I recollected it too. But currently I forgot. I will let u know about this later on.